Let’s not waste any more time. You want a girl, but don’t know how to go about it. You need not be afraid, my friend. What you need to know about making it happen. Read more now on men take the lead.

Confidence, first and foremost, is essential. Imagine this: You walk into a crowded room with your shoulders back and a confident smile. Women will notice this type of swagger. Confidence is not the same as arrogance. Nobody is interested in a showy person.

Next, be yourself. Sounds cliche? Maybe. It’s just as true as the April rain. Wearing shoes too small is uncomfortable and impossible to sustain. The authenticity of your personality shines through brighter than the facade you may put on.

Now let’s talk listening. Imagine you’re on your first date in a cafe. She may be talking about painting or a recent trip to Spain. Listen carefully, instead of mindlessly nodding off while thinking what topping you’ll get for your pizza later. Ask questions which show your interest in the woman’s stories and passions.

If you’re planning a date, do something memorable and fun! It’s a classic but if you do it too often, the movie and dinner can become boring. Consider an escape-room or pottery lesson. Shared experience creates bonds faster than Netflix.

Humor is a powerful tool. It is said that the shortest distance to two people is through laughter. If you have funny anecdotes, or jokes with a light-hearted tone (but don’t say anything offensive), share them. If your daughter laughs at the dad jokes you make, then she may be a keeper.

Remember those old-school ways your grandmother instilled in you? It’s time to dust off those old-school manners! You might think that holding the door open or offering a jacket in cold weather is trivial, but I assure you they’re gold nuggets for dating.

Remember that communication is what keeps everything together. Open up about your feelings, but don’t come across as desperate or needy. A delicate balance. You text every single day? Overkill! Keep it casual but consistent.

Here’s some self care advice. Look good doesn’t apply only to peacocks, who show off their feathers at the town hall. It is important for us as well! Grooming doesn’t have to be optional. It’s the foundation for any date night!

Do not underestimate the power that hobbies can have on you. They will add layers of interest to your life beyond simply being “that guy searching for love”.

Don’t be tempted to run faster than Usain bolt in 100 meter flat-out speed.

It is important to respect your personal space. Pushing boundaries never works out well… ever. !

You now have a no-nonsense, practical guide to finding the one special person you’ll share life’s ups and downsides with. !

Have a great time dating! !